Today, I have found out that a very good friend of mine, James Jarvis, has passed away. I am devastated. Absolutely crushed. I can’t believe it.
James was one of the loveliest people I’ve ever met. He was so kind, genuine, funny, unique and gentle. A true gentleman, and a true friend. I will miss him so much. So so so much.
I have been crying for most of the evening. It just doesn’t feel real. I desperately want to be able to attend his funeral but I just can’t afford the flights home. It’s just not possible.
I last spoke to James under a week ago on Facebook, and I wish I had a better chance to say goodbye, but of course, nobody sees these things coming. 😦
I just can’t believe this is real. James was the most vibrant and full-of-life guy. I keep remembering all the funny stories he’s told me, and all the great advice. His recommendations for mead, his absolute conviction that ‘crossbow’ is the answer to all of life’s questions. His honesty.
I will miss him. I can’t even begin to imagine how much.
I am praying for his family and friends, and hope that they can find peace in these awful times.
Rest in peace James. I love you. And I will miss you.
Hi,
I’m James’ brother Andy. Thank you for this. It’s a comfort to me and my parents that James was valued so much by so many. Please don’t worry about not being able to get back for the funeral. Just raise a glass to James wherever you are.